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Dr. Michael Ra Bouchard
Dr. Michael
PO Box 9
Pahoa, HI 96778

DrMichael@lovekindly.com
phone: 808.965.8800

 
Michael Ra Bouchard, M.A., Ph.D.
Doctor of Human Sexuality
Clinical Sexologist & Relationship Therapist

 

Dr. Michael Ra Bouchard is a board-certified clinical sexologist, sex therapist, relationship counselor and founder of Aloha Sexual Health & Happiness, LLC counseling services.

He is a Diplomate of the American Board of Sexology and the American College of Sexology, and Member of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, Association for Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, and American Counseling Association. For over 25 years he has maintained a global private practice—while variously based in New Orleans, San Francisco, Manhattan and Hawaii—helping thousands of individuals and couples enrich intimacy and experience greater happiness by overcoming sexual, marital and relationship challenges.

 

Dr. Michael is a seasoned sex therapist and relationship counselor. In addition to being an acclaimed sex, love, and relationship expert, he is a board-certified erotologist, sex researcher, graduate school professor of counseling psychology and human sexuality, author, sexual advice columnist, and sexual health educator. He is an early adaptor of telephone counseling and online guidance, since 1981 and 1995, respectively.

 

In 1994 Dr. Michael returned to his early childhood home of Hawaii and founded Aloha Sexual Health & Happiness counseling services. Specializing as a Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) clinician, Dr. Michael utilizes only the most effective and proven approaches in cognitive behavioral counseling and psychological empowerment. From his Hawaiian Island-based global counseling practice he devotes his major time to providing discreet and confidential treatment to clients locally, nationally, and internationally via face-to-face office visits and telephone distance counseling.

 

Private home consultations are also available. Dr. Michael is available for worldwide travel to clients seeking intensive in person treatment within the privacy and comfort of your home. Dr. Michael specializes in providing accelerated intensive therapy and discreet treatment to celebrities and high-profile individuals. Please call for details.

 

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Holding a Masters of Arts Degree in Clinical Counseling Psychology from the University of New Hampshire and a Ph.D. from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco, Dr. Bouchard brings over thirty years of training, experience and heart to his healing work as a professional counselor.

In addition, Dr. Bouchard is Faculty with the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco, as well as Graduate School Professor of Counseling for the University of Phoenix, Hawaii Campus. Dr. Bouchard is also an Honorably Discharged 1970's era United States Marine Corps veteran.   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Site Index

1.   Frequently Asked Questions about Sexology

2.   Know Your Therapist

3.   Dr. Michael’s Specialties

4.   FAQ’s about Telephone Counseling

5.   FAQ's about Online Care Consultations

6.   Dr. Michael’s Archive Free Articles

7.   Testimonials from Clients

8.   Excerpts from Dr. Michael's 3 New Books

9.   Mission Statement and Our Philosophy

10.  Basic Sexual Rights

11.  Notice & Disclaimer / Cancellation Policy

12.  Copyright Notice

13.  Contact Dr. Michael

14.  Purchase Copies of Dr. Michael's New Book Now

15.  Make a Payment by PayPal and Book a Session with Dr. Michael Now

 


FAQ’s about Sexology

What is a sexologist?

A sexologist is a sexual scientist with specialized training and advanced degrees in human sexuality. As sex researchers and educators, Dr. Michael and other research sexologists are recorders and reporters of the facts--what people do, think and feel sexually--and not judges of the behavior they describe. As a trained counselor, Dr. Michael offers therapeutically healthy and balanced perspective on all matters of sexuality and intimacy. With his dual specialization of sexology and counseling Dr. Michael is particularly well-equipped to bridge the realms of sexual and emotional intimacy.

Dr. Michael encourages each client to best make his or her own informed choices according to his or her own personal value system. As a clinical sexologist, he is specifically trained to assist clients in achieving optimum levels of sexual health and happiness, along with increased capacity for intimacy. Dr. Michael helps clients within a professional, non-judgmental, sensitive, sex and pleasure positive manner so that they experience more of what they want and less of what they don't in every realm of life.

Why seek counseling from a sexologist?
 
Dr. Michael is a practicing clinician, sex researcher, graduate school professor of human sexuality and counseling psychology, author and expert in the respective fields of sexology and relationship counseling. His therapeutic focus is always results-oriented and applicable to everyday living in the here and now. Dr. Michael's candid one-of-a-kind thought provoking style teaches and assists clients to recognize and reframe their thinking errors and cognitive distortions of perception.

Specializing as an REBT clinician, Dr. Michael utilizes only the most effective and proven approaches to counseling. From 1991-95, Dr. Michael perfected his REBT clinical skills in his Manhattan private practice. During this same period he was also a student and counseling client of the eminent sexologist, world renowned psychologist, and acknowledged "father" of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, the late Dr. Albert Ellis. As a care giver today, Dr. Michael continues to embrace the philosophy of empowering his clients to consciously live at cause in their life so as to bring about more of what is wanted and less of what is not.

What is Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy?

Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is a theory of personality and system of psychological training and treatment that emphasizes the role of unrealistic expectations and irrational beliefs. REBT is based upon the precept that emotions follow from our thoughts and judgments about people and events, and not from people or events themselves. REBT seeks to address disturbances caused by false and distorted beliefs towards overcoming the predisposition towards faulty thinking. As a skilled and seasoned REBT counseling expert, you can trust discussing your most private matters frankly and openly with Dr. Michael.

 

Dr. Michael respects each client’s personal values

and does not judge or discriminate against anyone.

He is committed to providing excellence in every session,

whether meeting face-to-face in his office

            or globally via phone counseling and online guidance.

 

Know Your Therapist

As a board certified clinical counseling sexologist in private practice for over 25 years, Dr. Michael Ra Bouchard has frequently heard clients speak about difficulties in locating a trained and talented counselor to help with their sensitive sexual concerns and private relationship problems. With all the talk and attention given to sex and relationships today, one might expect that a professionally qualified "sexdoc” would be about as common as your neighborhood corner convenience store.

Dr. Michael is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, holding both a Ph.D. in human sexuality and a Master of Arts in clinical counseling psychology. He specializes in all matters of sexuality, intimacy, and relationship counseling. Surprisingly, there are at most only a couple of thousand professionally trained and board-certified sexologists in the entire world, with the vast majority of them working in a multitude of disciplines outside of the counseling field. As for the handful of sexologists specializing in sex therapy and relationship counseling, even fewer in number are the tiny minority of us possessing both an advanced counseling psychology degree and an advanced sexological degree. Apparently, we "full pedigree" counselor-sexologists are spread rather sparsely around the planet!

Nothing replaces a face-to-face visit with your doctor. While it would be ideal to meet together in Dr. Michael's office, for anyone outside of Hawai'i, this could prove expensive and impractical. If you're local or planning on visiting the Hawaiian Islands, by all means call to make an office appointment. For everyone else, be assured Dr. Michael’s nearly three decades of work by telephone and over 15 years online reflect every bit as much of the same care, concern, and effectiveness as his face-to-face consultations.

When it comes to such important matters as your personal sexuality and intimate relationships, it’s essential to know that you’re working with an accomplished, skilled, and seasoned clinician you can trust. Whether you seek counseling, therapy, or online consultations individually or as a couple, Dr. Michael will assist you in a safe, relaxed, and open environment. You can depend on receiving competent, confidential care and above all, informed and effective results-oriented treatment.
 

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