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Helping You to Have
More of What You Want & Less of What You Don't
In Every Realm of Life, Love & Relationship


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Providing Telephone Counseling Since 1981
& Online Counseling Since 1995













Dr. Michael Ra Bouchard
Dr. Michael
PO Box 9
Pahoa, HI 96778

DrMichael@lovekindly.com
phone: 808.965.8800

 
Michael Ra Bouchard, M.A., Ph.D.
Doctor of Human Sexuality
Board Certified Clinical Sexologist & Marriage Therapist

Dr. Michael Ra Bouchard is the founder and director of the Aloha Sexual Health and Happiness Center located on Maui and The Big Island of Hawaii. He is a board certified psychologist and sexologist, Diplomate of the American Board of Sexology, member of the American College of Sexology, member of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, and member of the American Counseling Association. As a sex educator, researcher and therapist in New Orleans, San Francisco and Manhattan from 1981-1994, he helped thousands of people to overcome their sexual, marital and relationship challenges. Returning to his early childhood home of Hawaii in 1994, Dr. Bouchard founded the Aloha Sexual Health and Happiness Center. From his Hawaii based private practice, he continues to provide discreet and confidential treatment to clients locally, nationally, and internationally via local office visits and global telephone distance sessions.

Dr. Bouchard is also available for worldwide travel to clients seeking intensive face-to-face treatment within the privacy and comfort of their home. Dr. Bouchard specializes in providing accelerated and completely confidential treatment to celebrities and high-profile individuals. Please call for details.

 

 

 

 

 

 



Holding a Masters Degree in Clinical Counseling Psychology from the University of New Hampshire and a Ph.D. from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco, Dr. Bouchard brings over 25 years of training, experience and heart to his healing work. In addition, Dr. Bouchard is Faculty with the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, as well as Graduate School Professor of Counseling for the University of Phoenix, Hawaii Campus. Dr. Bouchard is also an Honorably Discharged 1970's era United States Marine Corps veteran.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

Site Index

1.   Frequently Asked Questions about Sexology

2.   Know Your Therapist

3.   Dr. Michael’s Specialties

4.   FAQ’s about Telephone Counseling

5.   FAQ's about Online Care Consultations

6.   Dr. Michael’s Archive Free Articles

7.   Testimonials from Clients

8.   Dr. Michael’s 60 Second Video Introduction

9.   Our Philosophy

10.  Basic Sexual Rights

11.  Notice & Disclaimer / Cancellation Policy

12.  Copyright Notice

13.  Contact Dr. Michael

14.  Excerpts from Dr. Michael's Two New Books

15.  Make a Payment by PayPal and Book a Session Now with Dr. Michael

 


FAQ’s about Sexology

What is a sexologist?

A sexologist is a sexual scientist with specialized training and advanced degrees in human sexuality. As sex researchers and educators, Dr. Michael and other research sexologists are recorders and reporters of the facts--what people do, think and feel sexually--and not judges of the behavior they describe. As a trained counselor, Dr. Michael offers therapeutically healthy and balanced perspective on all matters of sexuality and intimacy. With his dual specialization of sexology and counseling Dr. Michael is particularly well-equipped to bridge the realms of sexual and emotional intimacy.

Dr. Michael encourages each client to best make his or her own informed choices according to his or her own personal value system. As a clinical sexologist, he is specifically trained to assist clients in achieving optimum levels of sexual health and happiness, along with increased capacity for intimacy. Dr. Michael helps clients within a professional, non-judgmental, sensitive, sex and pleasure positive manner so that they experience more of what they want and less of what they don't in every realm of life.

Why seek counseling from a sexologist?
 
Dr. Michael is a practicing clinician, sex researcher, graduate school professor of human sexuality and counseling psychology, author and expert in the respective fields of sexology and relationship counseling. His therapeutic focus is always results-oriented and applicable to everyday living in the here and now. Dr. Michael's candid one-of-a-kind thought provoking style teaches and assists clients to recognize and reframe their thinking errors and cognitive distortions of perception.

Specializing as an REBT clinician, Dr. Michael utilizes only the most effective and proven approaches to counseling. Dr. Michael perfected his REBT skills while both a student and counseling client of the eminent sexologist, world renowned psychologist, and acknowledged "father" of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, the late Dr. Albert Ellis. In addition, Dr. Michael embraces the philosophy of empowering his clients to consciously live at cause in their life so as to bring about more of what is wanted and less of what is not.

What is Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy?

Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) is a theory of personality and system of psychological training and treatment that emphasizes the role of unrealistic expectations and irrational beliefs. REBT is based upon the precept that emotions follow from our thoughts and judgments about people and events, and not from people or events themselves. REBT seeks to address disturbances caused by false and distorted beliefs towards overcoming the predisposition towards faulty thinking. As a skilled and seasoned REBT counseling expert, you can trust discussing your most private matters frankly and openly with Dr. Michael.

 

Dr. Michael respects and works with each client’s individual
values and does not discriminate against anyone. He is committed
to providing excellence in every client session, whether meeting
face-to-face, via telephone or online.

 

 Click here to watch Dr. Michael’s 60 second video introduction

 

Know Your Therapist

As a board certified clinical counseling psychologist and clinical sexologist in private practice for over 25 years, Dr. Michael Ra Bouchard has frequently heard clients speak about difficulties in locating a trained and talented counselor to help with their sensitive sexual concerns and private relationship problems. With all the talk and attention given to sex and relationships today, one might expect that a professionally qualified "sexdoc” would be about as common as your neighborhood corner convenience store.

Surprisingly, there are at most only a couple of thousand professionally trained and certified sexologists in the entire world, with the vast majority of them working in a multitude of disciplines outside of the counseling field. As for the handful of sexologists specializing in sex therapy and marriage counseling, even fewer in number are the tiny minority of us possessing both an advanced counseling psychology degree and an advanced sexological degree. Apparently, we "full pedigree" counselor-sexologists are spread rather sparsely around the planet!

Nothing replaces a face-to-face visit with your doctor. While it would be ideal to meet together in Dr. Michael's office, for anyone outside of Hawai'i, this could prove expensive and impractical. If you're local or planning on visiting the Hawaiian Islands, by all means call to make an office appointment. For everyone else, be assured Dr. Michael’s nearly three decades of work by telephone and over 15 years online reflect every bit as much of the same care, concern, and effectiveness as his face-to-face consultations.

When it comes to such important matters as your personal sexuality and intimate relationships, it’s essential to know that you’re working with an accomplished, skilled, and seasoned clinician you can trust. Whether you seek counseling, therapy, or online consultations individually or as a couple, Dr. Michael will assist you in a safe, relaxed, and open environment. You can depend on receiving competent, confidential care and above all, informed and effective results-oriented treatment.
 

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